Here's a definition of tough.

Being told your son has died because the hospital fucked up.

Watching your wife get wheeled back into the maternity room without a newborn.

Having to put on a brave face for the next 3 months while your wife heals physically and mentally.

Waking up in the middle of the night to take care of your newborn so your wife can get a few extra hours of sleep.

Putting your families health and welfare over your own.

You know who do stuff like that?

Men.

Actual testosterone driven men.

I asked my wife...this is what she told me.

Now, we go back to @braxton_mccoy tweet.

Tough is overcoming adversity.

Tough is getting the fuck back up after you've gotten your ass kicked and saying you aint gonna get another lick in.

Its not wearing a fucking mask just to fucking wear one.

This concludes my Ted talk.