Here& #39;s a definition of tough.

Being told your son has died because the hospital fucked up.

Watching your wife get wheeled back into the maternity room without a newborn.

Having to put on a brave face for the next 3 months while your wife heals physically and mentally.

Waking up in the middle of the night to take care of your newborn so your wife can get a few extra hours of sleep.

Putting your families health and welfare over your own.

You know who do stuff like that?

Men.

Actual testosterone driven men.

I asked my wife...this is what she told me.

Now, we go back to @braxton_mccoy tweet.

Tough is overcoming adversity.

Tough is getting the fuck back up after you& #39;ve gotten your ass kicked and saying you aint gonna get another lick in.

Its not wearing a fucking mask just to fucking wear one.

This concludes my Ted talk.