When I tell you guys that I don’t forgive people who are not sorry, I mean it completely.
When I first started my spiritual journey, I went to my maternal side to tell them and do umcimbi to ask for guidance. I had my reasons for going there and I didn’t expect drama
When I first started my spiritual journey, I went to my maternal side to tell them and do umcimbi to ask for guidance. I had my reasons for going there and I didn’t expect drama
My aunt is the only person living there, I got my uncles together and called whoever wasn’t available to ask for permission. Everyone agreed. My aunt I had to speak to in person. She told me she would never accept such and that i had no right. Cool, it’s her home
She then proceeded to insult me and basically told me to fuck off, then she started swearing at my mother who isn’t here to defend herself. Told me I wanted to leave the snake esithwele ngaso at her home. So I beat her. I beat her on my mother’s behalf
So today my my uncle’s kids have umcimbi. She arrived after me, I greet everyone, including those that arrive after her, I completely ignore her. She goes out of her to come talk to me, I politely ask her to leave me alone. Does she not then start making snide remarks!?
And so I beat her again. Because I want her to know, I am not the one. She’s been enabled by EVERYONE because “she is not well”. They let her say thee most hurtful things to people then tell you to be the bigger person
It’s on sight. I will beat her every single time until she never speaks my name. Andidlulisi when you’ve disrespected me.