Wait a minute. I got kicked out of ANOTHER TVXQ/JYJ group on FB? What sort of nonsense is this? I did nothing wrong saying I miss JYJ music and asking if other people thought JYJ would ever do anything together again. The admin KNEW I don't support YC, but brought him up anyways.

SHE'S the one at fault. SHE'S the one the refused to respect my boundary when I said I needed some space to get over my hurt feelings and was muting the Messenger convo. SHE'S the one who supported me when shit went down in another FB group and she left as mod and started another

group, so her not respecting boundaries (she knows I ignore YC posts in the group and don't like him mentioned in comments on my posts too) multiple times hurt. https://twitter.com/Aleash89/status/1289998078817124354?s=19 I told her those things, and yet she said I wasn't clear in stating her wrong, blamed me for

getting upset over her YC nonsense in the comments and the way she kept replying even though I said I was done, and in the end called me a narcissist and hopes I get the help I need for that. One has to wonder if she's talking about me or discussing "rules" because of me

in the new group. Like this doesn't mean I should be kicked out of the group AT ALL. Sure, restrict me if she wants, but that should be it. She KNOWS I want a community where I can talk about DBSK/TVXQ/JYJ without having to restrict myself. I have WAY too many intances over

the years where an innocent comment about some DBSK thing pissed some fan off. She did say she forgot what happened in the old group and how I was attacked, but that is why she started the new group in the first place. How does she forget that? I get she could forget my community

wants however... At a certain point, this all means she has forgotten major things how our friendship started. I doubt she has been a fan as long me, so she doesn't understand the lose of iCassiopeia fan community. I want a space where I can have fun and spazz with other Cassies.

I made most of the posts in the group, and they got very few if any comments but still... I wonder what the group will be like now.

I mean yeah. It was hard being in community where YC was supported, but Cassiopeia communities that accept and will talk about the past are hard to find nowadays. (Anyone know any?) It was a bit hard being friends with her knowing she supports him too.

Can't find another FB group.

Oh any you want to know something else she replied after I muted it? The adult thing is for us both to step back and take a break. I wasn't punishing her at all. smdh I was using a social media function that stops me from getting notifications for a set amount of time.

Besides, I already knew she wasn't accepting my boundaries. I had to do what was best for myself, so muting wasn't about her. Oh and her advice was recommending a book that had helped her in the past. All that said to me was that she though I had problem. Coming from someone who

had previously dismissed my feelings and not taken them seriously this "advice" shows that even more. What the heck was she thinking?