if you need to project your sexuality onto an idol and take it super seriously you need help. im sorry but there are a ton of actual out lgbt people that exist who you can relate to why do you need to pretend like a stray kids member is nonbinary and gayhttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😭" title="Laut schreiendes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Laut schreiendes Gesicht">

i can understand minors doing it but i’ve seen far too many grown adults getting angry at the idea that their fav might actually be *gasp* STRAIGHT https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😰" title="Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😰" title="Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="😰" title="Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß" aria-label="Emoji: Gesicht mit offenem Mund und Angstschweiß">

gonna clarify some things: i never said u cant joke about an idol being lgbt thats fine i’ve done that before. but when your “headcanon” about a real person causes you to get legitimately upset with people who disagree, that’s probably unhealthy. boundaries are important

also i never said anywhere that every idol is straight. i said people who get mad at the fact that their fav MIGHT be straight are weird. we do not know these people’s sexualities