When a lot of women talk about submission I’m learning it’s usually related to just not wanting to do it all alone and needing someone dependable. I swear y’all need cooperation not submission. It’s time to move away from that unnecessary ass word.

It’s ok to say you want to be able to put the armor down and share some of the labor related to this thing called life. But you need someone dependable who will/can make mutually benefiting decision. That takes healthy collaboration and cooperation.

It’s ok to admit that you take charge every damn day at work and you don’t want every single and every final say to be on you at home.