I really hate how “modern”/ “feminist” lite women insist on using the word *submission* to describe not wanting to carry the mental load of household organizational tasks.. since the data says they are in fact still very much doing that lol

Y’all annoying.

“I just want someone else to take the wheel. That’s what *eye* mean by submission”- women who are still performing the bulk of the psycho-emotional and organizational labour in their hetero relationships.

Y’all (cishet women/ women who only “build lives” with men regardless of orientation) are very ROMANCED by patriarchy lol

As in you simply cannot let go of narratives/ language connected to your oppression because you are romanced by the idea of “good” patriarchal living minus the *overt* strife & violence. It’s why you still cling to normative submission &all the other garbage.