Lesbians open this thread.

No matter how many men you’ve dated in the past, you are a lesbian. No one can take that from you.

You do not have to use she/her. Use whatever pronouns you want and know you are just as much of a lesbian as everyone else in the community.

The comphet you may be experiencing still does not define you. Society’s standards of love do not define you.

You are beautiful inside and out.

Your lesbianism is not a curse. You are not broken. You are whole. You outshine.

You do not have to sacrifice your own happiness to please everyone else. Whether you are out or not, remember that.

Take care of yourself. This is your day.