Formula no dey but if you know you’re handsome, just leave one nice picture in your media so when you dm and they do their pre-reply stalking, they find that picture and go “oh he’s cute, lemme say hi back”.

Going “straight to the point” also helps bc some of these attractive girls get a solid 7-14 “Hi” in their dm daily. If you come & say Hi,even when youre a handsome lad, they might overlook it. Let that first sentence say more than just a hi and leave your picture to do the rest.

Some people also go with the “test waters on the TL” tactic. So just engage her on the TL and see how she responds. If you become “TL friends” chances are she’ll be more responsive if you dm. This can also fail because some people just want the TL friendship and nothing more.

At the end of the day, formula no dey. If you choose to shoot your shot, go with the knowledge that it might not work and that’s okay. Nothing wrong with you. Nothing wrong with her. She’s just not interested. Take it like a G and move on. Shalom.