“Instead of going for someone that u like but won’t like u back, why not u go for someone that likes you?”

My counterpart fr this is, if someone likes me, I can’t guarantee that I’d be able to reciprocate the feeling they hv for me.. I can’t guarantee their happiness, what if-

I hurt them instead. Idw to hurt anyone..

If i like someone.. the only thing i hv to think about is, will they like me back..? and if they do i dont hv to worry about anything else cus i alrdy like the person so much.
But if they don’t im the one that’s hurting and-

Idm that.. as long as others are not hurting im okay.

Plus.. if someone likes me.. whyyyy?????? The hell would u like me? Im just a crazy, screw lose, hectic, depressed kid with tons of emotional baggage abd very low self esteem. Will u be able to cope n accept with that?