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They tell us to never love more than we are loved, and by that they mean well. After all as man way you be, no woman suppose get your mumu button. Those words get in your head, and you begin to wonder, "Does she deserve the love you give" "Are you doing this love thing too much"
"What if she breaks your heart"
"What happens if things don't work out"
"How do you face everyone who warned you it'll end in tears"
"What happens if things don't work out"
"How do you face everyone who warned you it'll end in tears"
It's funny how the world we live in is so messed up that actually loving someone is considered a weakness 
. So we learn to love but with restrictions and boundaries, as if to say love was meant to be a means of bargaining who is superior and with whom the power lies
. So we learn to love but with restrictions and boundaries, as if to say love was meant to be a means of bargaining who is superior and with whom the power lies
We say we love someone but are not willing to go the length for them, for fear of being called weak and or soft. So the weak one's become the outcast, the rejects, the one's who get their hearts broken. And now they either hate love or are terrified of it
They don't give up on it but don't believe in it anymore. And why should they??? All it comes with is pain and heartache. So they learn to love but only those who love them more, and just like that they become the very thing that hurt them.
Funny thing is the people who tell you to love less, pray to find someone who would love them more. So what we're left with is a generation that craves to be loved but don't want to love, we become infatuated with the idea of love, but run away from the reality of love.
Speaking as someone who has both been the one in love, and also been the one that was loved, I can say the latter feels a lot better, it's a lot safer, and trust me, it gives a lot less heartache. But the problem with it is you'll always have one foot out the door
Unlike the once upon a time famous song by Jason Durello, "It won't take a lot to drive me away from you", cause I really wasn't that into you in the first place 
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But seriously though, this love thing isn't for the faint hearted. You're gonna question your sanity over and over again, you're gonna feel like a fool half the time and some days all you'll do is ask yourself WHY???
And to answer the earlier questions,
1 Is, no one deserves the love you give but you give it anyway
2 No you aren't
3 Then she breaks it, "it'll hurt as hell but you'll survive"
4 If things don't work out, it shouldn't be from lack of trying
5 You don't, f**k em all
1 Is, no one deserves the love you give but you give it anyway
2 No you aren't
3 Then she breaks it, "it'll hurt as hell but you'll survive"
4 If things don't work out, it shouldn't be from lack of trying
5 You don't, f**k em all
But before you claim to love someone, make sure your love is one without condition or expectation. Your love should be the 1 Corinthians 13: 4 type of love
And finally, when you do everything right and still get your heart broken, I want you to know, love wasn't the problem, and you just have to keep searching for who will not deserve the love you have to give, but choose to accept it!!!!
