There is this constant question about femdom sessions and how it relates to me being "turned on". There is still this odd expectation that the situation produces gushing waterfalls. A woman can enjoy a situation and not need to go masturbate about it now/later. I like being 1/2

in control. I enjoy it immensely. This does not mean I& #39;m turned on/need to do something about it right there. Not every single thing regarding a female *has* to be sexual. Just bc you are touching your willy does not mean I& #39;m touching myself. I enjoy my work, that& #39;s what matters.

I can enjoy things on many levels-mentally, spiritually, physically. This constant question of "are you turned on right now" makes me feel like I& #39;m in a cage being probed and that my "wetness" has direct relationship to my dominance. It does not. It& #39;s like some weird top from the

bottom situation going on. That you still think somehow you are making me wet-you are most likely not. Mental satisfaction is of a higher playing field that directly relates to what I did to YOU mentally/physically. Enjoyment for me does not relate to my panty moistness.