EMOTIONAL LEADERSHIP:

"HER PLEASURE is in being chaotic and then getting STRAIGHTENED OUT BY YOUR CLARITY.

"And then she'll resist it, and sabotage it, in order to feel that straightening out again."
-- David Deida

I dated this girl in Tokyo last year. She was a mess, but very feminine.

She would turn everything into a mess. And I had enough of this training to see it, to get a hold of her, to bring her back into order - and she loved it.

And then she'd do it all again.

"THE THING THAT TOUCHES HER, that turns her on, is the feeling of being straightened by you - not 'sustaining the straightness.'

"She is going to give you a little problem, because SHE WANTS TO FEEL YOU STRAIGHTEN OUT THAT THING...

"Not the issue, but her."
-- David Deida