Also for FUCK'S sake listen to the people WITH mental illnesses over the people who talk about us because y'all hear "exp*rt" & never consider ableism and saneism that most of those "exp*rts" participate in & harm us with & then surprise, surprise y'all make saneist suggestions.

It does not matter you only mean this specific one, y'all don't even grasp how ableist a lot of the information on that specific one is and this is coming from someone who lived with someone who fits under N/A*P*D and I have B*P*D and y'all...have come to the wrong conclusions.

It is not about illnesses, it is about priv*leges and power and crimm*n*liz*tion always harms those without first and foremost with a few powerful stragglers on occasion, give it up already.

Unless you want to admit you mean us too? It's obvious you do.

This shit is so REAL for me, y'all.

I had to unlearn so much about my own situation where I was coming up with ableist/saneist answers for why a person like that abused me my whole life bc that's what "experts" say...they harm me more than my abuser though bc they miss so much.

I have read ALL that ableist/saneist shit trying to make sense of my own home life, I know what you /think/ you're doing but you are not...you're actually damning who powerful people harm bc y'all won't accept "experts" can be wrong when they talk over people w/ experiences.

AND a lot of us who have lived that do buy into those "experts" reasons because a powerful person these systems empowered? Fucks you UP, you want answers, you want FREEDOM, but this is not how you get either because the root of those "answers" is ableism/saneism.

I've lived the harm from that type of person, I've lived the seeking answers, and I've definitely lived being the one being harmed by saneism more than my abuser who used that to his advantage too...because saneism doesn't save you from them, it empowers them.

Idgaf if y'all listen, I'm not even speaking to y'all just like y'all don't speak to me, I'm just putting out what I know as y'all will forever do fuck all with it.