If you voluntarily choose to exclude yourself from the category of women by identifying as a man or as a not-a-woman-nor-a-man, then it is not the responsibility of all women to redefine themselves to accommodate/include someone who rejects their sexed body.
Ergo,
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If you are pregnant, need a smear test or otherwise it is incumbent on you to take some responsibility for the choices you made and understand these are female/women-only conditions/issues and women did not throw you out or exclude you; you chose to walk away.
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You do not get to force women to redefine themselves as menstruators or cervix-owners or pregnant people just so they are inclusive of someone who has no desire to be part of womanhood.
/ends