My hot take of the day is that if you're not a therapist, you really shouldn't be telling people that the way they cope is wrong and that they're "grooming themselves"

I hate how twitter watered down the meaning of important words like grooming and gaslighting because now people use it as a way to win a discussion and not like the serious thing it is (HOW can someone groom themself)

"I tried to cope through content about my trauma and it didn't work for me" = ✓
"I dislike consuming content about my trauma because it makes me feel worse" = ✓
"Coping through media doesn't work and only makes thing worse because it didn't work for me" =