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Ok, so as some of you might know, I& #39;ve been in contact with Juni over the last 2 days, we& #39;ve both come to understand a great deal about eachother and for me, it& #39;s been a real eye opener in regard to the dumb drama we& #39;ve all been seeing over the last few months.
I think it& #39;s worth clarifying that this whole problem with drama isn& #39;t connected to one or two people, rather, it& #39;s a string of events that have been linked together over the last 1 1/2 years which has snowballed out of control, but me and Juni want an end to this.
Juni told me a lot, and in speaking to her I came to realise how narrow minded I was, even right up until 2 days ago, and honestly that& #39;s definately on me, I didn& #39;t open a channel for communicating at all when I came back, so in my mind she was just the same as she always was.
But that& #39;s simply not the case, since July she has had a lot of introspection and self reflection, she& #39;s been trying to repair old broken bridges and has genuinely been open to people telling her if she has stepped over the line.
Upon finding this out, I realised how stupid I was for not even trying to look at her side from the very beginning. But Juni wasn& #39;t the only isolated person who I did this toward, there& #39;s quite a few people in her circle who I simply just didn& #39;t even entertain trying to find...
... out why they acted the way they did. I did a foolish thing and drew arbitrary lines that fitted, and I went from that lead assuming my judgement was correct, it was not. I had become victim to the very thing I thought I was against, misinformation.
Because of this misinformation, I had this dangerous view that these people were "too sensitive", even though they had their reasons for how they were. For years some of them had been recieving death threats, some had been doxxed, some had been bullied for years...
... and as I hate to admit it, my actions in July, and potentially even before then, may have added more fuel to that fire. And for all of this, I& #39;m sorry for any of the hate and harassment that these people recieved either at my own hand or otherwise.
So what lesson has come of this? Simply, it& #39;s just communication, we all have a part to blame in this mess by simply dismissing eachother, being inflammatory or even just straight up shutting down any lines of communication. It ended up creating, broadly speaking, two circles...
... who spend their time pointing fingers at eachother and solving nothing. Which is why we ended up at a point a few days back, when it was all close to being a constant wave of drama that wouldn& #39;t show signs of stopping any time soon.
I think from now on we should all just learn to coexist, just allow ourselves to be in a public space without fighting constantly. I& #39;m not saying for everyone to suddenly become friends, because I know that just simply won& #39;t happen, but I& #39;m saying that we should all give...
... ourselves breathing room and prevent this polarised dichotomy from occuring again.
