let’s go into 2021 being more on sight with anti antis, in ways that actually get to them, not just moral filibustering but legitimately calling their shit what it is: a glorified traumabond cult, can we please make them feel afraid and ashamed again

they don’t care about how morally wrong what they’re doing is, they don’t care about anyone’s trauma, so appealing to their morality is completely useless. it will never work. they will never tell you it wasn’t your fault that someone groomed you with lolishotaincestrape online.

what they DO care about is their sense of victimhood and marginalization for coping on main, so start pointing that out. tell them they’re not welcome in lgbt safe spaces. fuck it, tell them they don’t get to be one of us PERIOD, because they are not.

much like a gay or trans conservative, your identity can be Valid without it entitling you to an lgbt community that loves and accepts and supports you.

you’re a hen who thinks wolves should be let into the hen house? go have fun with the wolves then. no more sympathy. too bad for you.

speaking AS a messy survivor who uses “problematic” shipping/kink to “cope” - nah. im done. you’re not one of mine. go have fun out in the cold. i don’t care that you don’t feel safe publicly expressing lust for fictional pedophilia anymore.