tw// sexuality
despite greys anatomy being fucking shit, i’m so grateful for it because it normalised something for me that i’d been struggling with for a long, long time to come to terms with because it wasn’t something i spoke to anyone about and hello yes i am talking about-

my sexuality. callie and arizona’s relationship means so much to me because it made me very aware of who i am as a person and who i’m attracted to. i dont want to sound offensive when i say this but i feel like currently, there is a certain “aesthetic” about being part of-

the lgbtq+ community. in terms of what you do and what you wear and how you dye your hair. and when you see people who match that “aesthetic” and you see yourself and you don’t, it feels like you’re not apart of this community because you don’t look a certain way. again, i do-

not mean for ANY of this to be offensive to absolutely anyone. so for me, being able to see callie and arizona’s relationship be the way that it was, helped me realise so many things. and especially callie because her journey of discovering her own sexuality is similar to mine-

i have only ever dated boys but i’ve always known girls are the SHITTT!! but it was always something very hard for me to come to terms with, and even doing this right now is difficult because i’m still learning to love myself. anyways, callie’s journey helped me with MY own-

experience. her relationship with arizona made me realise how normal and fucking beautiful it is to just love someone, no matter their gender. to see them grow together and even raise a family was so inspiring to me because i grew up in a fairly conventional household-

i have no idea if my parents are homophobic, god knows, hope not fingers crossed, but i never learned about any relationships apart from female and male. so once again, thank you calzona. seeing them together made me realise that i’m just going to love who i love-

i don’t care what gender the person is. if i love someone i love them. periodt. i don’t need to label myself if i know who i am and the only reason i know who i am is because of callie and arizona, well grey’s anatomy. so for that one tiny little thing that they didn’t mess up-

except for 11x05 and onwards, i’m so very grateful to the writers and jessica capshaw and sara ramirez. i don’t need to conform to any societal “aesthetic” to know who i’m going to love. thank you to everyone on here too because this is the first place i ever felt comfortable-

enough in to come out. i love you all. i’m gonna shut up now. enjoy your day loves <3 .