1/4 ) The vast majority of my clients are loving married men who are no longer intimate with their spouses (often after the arrival of children).
When they open up about this lack of intimacy I can see the pain, rejection, guilt and loneliness they feel.

2/4 ) It's it truly heartbreaking to be in my position and witness this hurt on a weekly basis.
These men are not cheating monsters, they are vulnerable beings looking for human connection and desperately trying to rebuild their self worth.
Hiring a professional such as myself

3/4)is only a quick fix but it doesn't solve the underlying problem.
We, as a society need to acknowledge that this is an epidemic amongst monogamous heterosexual couples that is causing people a great deal of pain and sometimes having huge negative impacts on their mental health

4/4) We all need to grow up, stop shaming people for their desires and start having an open discussion about this issue!
Sending out love to everyone - men and women - currently struggling with this.