Ohmygod I gotta vent for a bit

So at the start of this year I lived with people I knew from a choir, because I had no option to go somewhere else. I had to register myself to that part of our country so I could receive post at that address.

The thing is that the post I get is very personal sometimes. Even though I moved and registered myself to again another part of the country, they still receive post destined for me sometimes.

Which was okay, if they only shared it with me.

But now, the mom of that house, shared EVERYTHING with my aunt and uncle, even though I told her I am NOT OKAY with that.

She keeps intruding my life like this, by sharing letters destined for me with my aunt and uncle. Today she also just called them.

Instead of talking to me about it, she calls my aunt and uncle, even though im an adult, I keep getting treated like a 5 year old kid and I’m not okay with that. I already told her that so many times but she just keeps telling these things to my aunt and uncle.

Which they - of course - tell me in return, and that causes me stress because I don’t want my aunt and uncle to know everything about the letters I receive and the things that go on in my life.

And I don’t know how I can make it clear to this woman that I don’t want her to share my personal things with my family, because she just won’t listen.

She always judges me, thinks I should do things differently, while it’s going fine now. And when I send her a message, she doesn’t answer me, no, she tells her answer to my aunt and uncle, who then get back at me. So This happens all behind my back.

And it’s triggering me but I can’t fix it as long as that woman doesn’t behave like a normal person and just tells me what she thinks, instead of telling my family behind my back.

This has been going on for months now, but it had happened before that I got angry for her crossing my boundaries and she just straight went to my aunt and uncle, to tell them I was “off” again. (And with that she crossed my boundaries AGAIN)

I’m 22. She can just talk to me about adult topics, but she doesn’t. She never does. And now I have to explain everything again to my aunt and uncle even though they don’t have the right to know.

I’m just very annoyed with her and I really don’t know what to do at this point, because she makes a problem out of everything I do, even when I did nothing wrong.

Idk I just had to vent. End of thread.