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A thread on what men can do to stop rapes
1)Define your own manhood. Consider whether messages about manhood, like
âdon't take no for an answerâ and âbe toughâ play a role in creating unhealthy and
unsafe relationships. Choose what kind of man you want to be.
âdon't take no for an answerâ and âbe toughâ play a role in creating unhealthy and
unsafe relationships. Choose what kind of man you want to be.
2) Talk it over.
Better communication in sexual situations-listening to the other
person, stating desires clearly, and asking when a situation is unclear-will make
relationships safer and healthier. Create a space to speak honestly about sex
Better communication in sexual situations-listening to the other
person, stating desires clearly, and asking when a situation is unclear-will make
relationships safer and healthier. Create a space to speak honestly about sex
3)Understand the ability to consent. Drugs and alcohol can affect people's
ability to decide whether they want to be sexual with someone. If a person is âreally
out of itâ and can't give consent, wait until you both are ready to enthusiastically
say yes.
ability to decide whether they want to be sexual with someone. If a person is âreally
out of itâ and can't give consent, wait until you both are ready to enthusiastically
say yes.
4)Get a woman's perspective.
Ask women how the fear of rape affects their
daily lives and whether they know someone who has been raped. Listen and learn
from them about the impact of rape and how to stop it.
Ask women how the fear of rape affects their
daily lives and whether they know someone who has been raped. Listen and learn
from them about the impact of rape and how to stop it.
5) Ask guys.
Ask men how it would feel to be seen as a potential rapist and how
they would feel if a woman or girl in their life was sexually assaulted. Learn about
the ways sexual violence touches the lives of men.
Ask men how it would feel to be seen as a potential rapist and how
they would feel if a woman or girl in their life was sexually assaulted. Learn about
the ways sexual violence touches the lives of men.
6) Be aware of pop culture's messages.
We are surrounded daily by TV shows,
music, magazines, video games, and movies that communicate messages about
masculinity and relationships. Don't let images in popular culture dictate your
behavior.
We are surrounded daily by TV shows,
music, magazines, video games, and movies that communicate messages about
masculinity and relationships. Don't let images in popular culture dictate your
behavior.
7) Choose words carefully.
When you use words to put women down, you
support the belief that they are less than fully human. It is easier to ignore
women's well-being when they are seen as inferior. Choose language that respects
women.
When you use words to put women down, you
support the belief that they are less than fully human. It is easier to ignore
women's well-being when they are seen as inferior. Choose language that respects
women.
8)Speak out.
You probably will never see a rape in progress, but you will hear
attitudes and see behaviors that degrade women and promote a culture of violence.
When your friend tells a joke about rape, say you don't find it funny. Use your voice.
You probably will never see a rape in progress, but you will hear
attitudes and see behaviors that degrade women and promote a culture of violence.
When your friend tells a joke about rape, say you don't find it funny. Use your voice.
9) Get involved.
Join a student group working to prevent violence against women.
Or if there isn't a student group, start your own. Men's anti-rape groups are
becoming more and more common. Make a difference.
Join a student group working to prevent violence against women.
Or if there isn't a student group, start your own. Men's anti-rape groups are
becoming more and more common. Make a difference.
10). Show your strength.
Don't ever have sex with anyone against their will. Make
a pledge to be a man with strength.
Don't ever have sex with anyone against their will. Make
a pledge to be a man with strength.
