Black folks, God is okay with your complicated feelings towards White supremacists

Too many of us feel a penchant towards forgiving people and institutions without the requisite work of healing... Don't let nobody rush you in your experience or your healing

Sometimes "I don't forgive you" is the truth of the moment

Stand in the discomfort of that truth

We are moving in healthy practices of forgiveness

Your feelings ALL OF THEM about people who have caused you real harm are valid...

We have been indoctrinated to flippantly forgive people who didn't ask, don't want it, and can't manage it... This only compounds your emotional burden

If black lives matter... Black feelings matter as well