It& #39;s bad enough that ppl will take to social media to vent their marital issues. What& #39;s worse are the folks giving their polarizing opinions that no one asked for.
Honest to God, why do all these folks on MT think in dichotomies??
Honest to God, why do all these folks on MT think in dichotomies??
Real issues such as marriage are being oversimplified into categories that don& #39;t reflect reality. The danger of dichotomous thinking is that you head is so far up where the light don& #39;t shine it becomes impossible to see life outside those categories. Even the slightest nuance...
seems incomprehensible to them bc those nuances operate outside their binary vision of reality.
Let& #39;s look at a story that& #39;s been making rounds on MT:
A husband is struggle to make ends meet dt the pandemic, has lost his job & has tried diff. avenues to source income
Let& #39;s look at a story that& #39;s been making rounds on MT:
A husband is struggle to make ends meet dt the pandemic, has lost his job & has tried diff. avenues to source income
while his wife has a large amount of savings and justifies her refusal to help by religion.
Now, whether or not this story is true is not the point of this thread. Instead, the dichotomous thinking of those supporting either side not only shows me that not only have the vast
Now, whether or not this story is true is not the point of this thread. Instead, the dichotomous thinking of those supporting either side not only shows me that not only have the vast
majority of young people commenting on this story have never actually faced real-life tribulations, but they also lack a basic level of emotional intelligence to recognize the humanity of those involved. Islamic law does not occur in a vacuum. Real people and real issues are
taken into accout. If you are looking at the rulings of Islam as simply letter in a book that only take real meaning when they serve your interests (esp. with marriage) you& #39;ve got a huge problem.
The rulings of Islam came to REAL people with REAL issues. For the most part,
The rulings of Islam came to REAL people with REAL issues. For the most part,
they& #39;re not abstractions.
Not only is it incredibly arrogant to project you binary solution on people whose trials you& #39;ve comfortably oversimplified according to your binary worldview, you are actively removing the humanity of those people by making them emotionless, faceless
Not only is it incredibly arrogant to project you binary solution on people whose trials you& #39;ve comfortably oversimplified according to your binary worldview, you are actively removing the humanity of those people by making them emotionless, faceless
talking points for you and your murals to argue about.
TL;DR
Get of twitter kids or I& #39;m telling your mom you argue with people all day.
TL;DR
Get of twitter kids or I& #39;m telling your mom you argue with people all day.