- ppl will always want to defend their friends
- even if not ideal it& #39;s NORMAL to have a fight or flight response to potshots from ppl perceived to be enemies
- potshots solve nothing.

Just don& #39;t bitch publically. do not bother. It will only get your friends hurt or in drama.

important thing I& #39;ve learned about fandom drama: besides trolls, ppl genuinely want to be left alone to have fun w friends

if you ignore ppl who bother you and don& #39;t stir pots, they are more likely to do the same for you.

Ppl REACT when you bitch about them. It& #39;s common sense.

Should ppl react?? Maybe not but we& #39;re all human we all have a fight or flight response when we feel attacked.

Everyone who blames someone else for overreacting is perfectly likely to overreact themselves when roles are reversed.

Just don& #39;t stir shit in the first place.