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are ppl rlly out here saying HCing characters as ace is sexualizing minors??? i..... what .

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do people think that being ace = having no sex??? that's not what it is. that's not what that means.
ace and aro identities are an entire SPECTRUM. someone being ace isn't admitting to not having or ever wanting sex, it's just... a lack of sexual attraction.

if u are fine HC characters as bisexual or homosexual or etc. why NOT ace?? ace and aro identities are different, and they can differ even between the same individual!

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there are sex-repulsed aces and aces who enjoy sex. both are valid! both are fine!
but being ace/HCing someone as ace isn't.... sexualizing anyone?? there are minors who are ace, telling them that they can't HC characters as such unless they're over 18 is shitty, no?

this thread isn't very well put together and i don't think im getting my point across. pls just look at lrt before this bc i'm just frustrated in general abt people saying this so my thoughts got jumbled, that other thread is much more put together djfhdjf