CW: miscarriage

1) There is nothing shameful in miscarriage. Anyone who shares their story it is both facing and helping to break down centuries of unfair and painful stigma, on top of their personal grief. It takes courage.

2) Don't pass judgement on the way people experience, handle or express grief, in any context. It is agonising for a complete stranger to sneer at the way you're mourning – a bewildering cruelty that makes someone's life worse in an already difficult period.

Some people really do come to Twitter and the human mask they must wear to work and with their friends just falls right off