Lately I've been seeing there's a lot of toxicity and TSS going around and even though I always try to stay away from it, I just want to say some stuff I've realized.

We've all come to the conclusion that M didn't deserve what happened to him. But what I've considered is that (maybe) he needed it to happen, and proof enough is how he's doing in life now. He's in an awesome place and feeling happy as ever. He wouldn't be where he is +

now if that, and other mistakes he made, didn't happen. So, using that as an excuse to keep babying - in a condescending way - a 29 year old man, is getting pretty lame and boring.
He needed sth that could make him see that he wasn't as untouchable as he might have thought +

he was, and that showed him how vulnerable he can be. 'Cause thanks to that vulnerability, he understood that he himself, and the way he loved needed to evolve. He said in an interview sth along the lines that, once he thought love was possessiveness, but now he understands +

it isn’t like that. And that progress my friends, isn't made just because...it's the result of the hard blow life gave him.

Same goes for G. He has obviously made mistakes, made and taken poor decisions and other things, but it’s not like none of us haven't. For real, who has +

enough guts (and blatant bravado) to be able to say they haven't done bad or wrong? No one. And if there's someone well...good for you...I guess. Another thing people always bring up is the -stupid- idea that he’s used M and other people and that he doesn't +

love M as M loves him . Well, let me break it down for you M is old and experienced enough to know and decide who and what he wants in his life and....surprise,surprise, he's said and shown, in more than a few times, that he loves and wants G to be in his life for the long run +

(MGPFG!!!!).

Second, being shy and private doesn't mean loving less or in a more superficial way - on the contrary. Therefore, you don't need to see it for it to be there and real.

In fact, as a fan, you don't have to see anything about their private lives. That they decide +

to share, it's another thing and we should be thankful they've decided to share their lives - or part of them - with us. However, that doesn't mean you have a right to say or try to change their lives only cause you feel entitled enough. Don't forget your place. You're a fan +

that can love and support them, which means being respectful and knowing the boundaries. Overstepping the boundaries only leads to toxicity, as we have seen. So please refrain from doing it.

With all that being said, I'd like to ask/say/invite you to please stop having all +

that high and impossible expectations about M and G. They are humans and humans fuck up, they hurt themselves and others around them, sometimes while trying and sometimes without even trying. However, that doesn't make them bad. It makes them flawed and human. As they say, +

"We are all the villains in someone else's story".

So stop with all the BS about them hurting or using each other. They both are young individuals who obviously have done stuff, and whether that stuff is good or bad depends on our own perceptions and what we've been taught and +

believe in. Acts aren't good or bad, they are just acts of which we make interpretations and assumptions. Hence, those acts committed by them, aren't for us to decide if they are good or bad. They have their families, friends, law and each other for that.

Also, seeking +

perfection is a false illusion, nothing and no one is completely perfect. But you know what? There are people that can be perfect for each other. And that's what M and G are to one another.
They were a puzzle piece much needed in the life of the other. A piece that the +

universe and fate put on eos way and, gladly, they decided to pick and make it part of their complete puzzle. Their love might not be perfect, but it’s real.
Stop searching for perfection and focus instead on searching for realness. That's what MG has given us and to each other.

If you've reached here a big "thank you" coming your way and I'd like to clarify I'm not trying to create drama or get dragged by any means.
If you don't like what you're reading, well...just keep scrolling and continue with your day. Yet...if you not only don't like it, but +

also feel attacked or that I'm being rude or targeting you, I invite you, sweetheart, to do a little personal insight and ask yourself why you feel this way instead of coming at me or criticizing.

I'm just giving my point of view and what I think, see and feel...don't have to share it, but I expect respect.

Thx for the feedback @lisa_yadom @jowaanjarmy @mewgulfsbitch