I remember reading somewhere that woman who can't get out of their minds even during sex struggle with orgasms.

I think of that when I think of the zoning out chat, that there is a lack of presence and this often hinders pleasure.

Your boo’s head is between your legs and you’re thinking about Google spreadsheets or whether or not you’ll be able to make up with your mom before Thanksgiving. https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2018/11/216589/cant-orgasm-anxiety-sex

"When you’re anxious, you cannot focus long enough to orgasm. According to Aaron Harvey, founder of the mental health organization, Intrusive Thoughts, anxiety has the ability to disrupt sexual energy and pull you entirely out of a positive headspace."