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hi cubs! please don't open this thread if it might be triggering for you. this thread is about some of the most common red flags of fake caregivers.
tw. grooming, pedophilia
tw. grooming, pedophilia
1. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐ฅ๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐ช๐ง๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ง๐๐๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ค๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ฉ๐ค, or in general.
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2. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐ข๐๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ง ๐ง๐ช๐ก๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐จ๐๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐จ ๐จ๐๐๐ข ๐ก๐๐ ๐ ๐จ๐๐ญ๐ช๐๐ก ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐๐๐จ, even though you have expressed that you are only interested in platonic and/or sfw relationships. they will obsess +
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over every mistake that you make and constantly look for opportunities to punish you.
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3. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ'๐ง๐ ๐๐ค๐ฃ๐ฉ๐ง๐ค๐ก๐ก๐๐ฃ๐. they give you the cold shoulder when you display any kind of interest in anyone else. this is one of the manipulation tactics that i will talk about in this thread. they will obsess over even the smallest things, like what you wear.
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4. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐๐ญ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ค๐ฃ. they will double-text you like breathing air and get upset with you for not texting back fast enough. they will react when you tell them you aren't interested in talking to them.
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5. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐๐ค๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐จ๐๐๐ข ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐จ๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ฃ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐ง๐๐๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐๐. and if they do happen to be talking to you while you're big, it's because they are trying to manipulate you into regressing for them.
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6. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐๐ฃ๐จ๐๐จ๐ฉ ๐ค๐ฃ ๐ง๐๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฉ๐ช๐ง๐๐จ ๐ค๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ซ๐๐ฃ ๐๐๐ฉ๐๐ง ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช'๐ซ๐ ๐ฉ๐ค๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐ข ๐ฃ๐ค. most of the littles i've ever talked to are really shy and timid, and they have a lot of warming up to do. +
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(6. cont.) one of the most significant things that littles get out of age regression is a chance to heal. forcing or pressuring any little to do anything at all can be extremely detrimental to their healing process. not to mention, wildly disrespectful.
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7. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ฃ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ง๐ค๐ฅ๐ง๐๐๐ฉ๐ ๐ฌ๐๐๐ก๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ง๐ ๐ง๐๐๐ง๐๐จ๐จ๐๐. this can look like many different things: calling themselves 'daddy' or 'mommy' right away, making sexual innuendos/references, +
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(7. cont.) a lot of swearing, and in some cases, excessive complimenting. this is one of the most common red flags that we see when adults are attempting to groom minors.
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8. they say things similar to: "๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐ฌ๐ค๐ช๐ก๐๐ฃ'๐ฉ ๐ฌ๐๐ฃ๐ฉ ๐ข๐ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช, ๐ฌ๐ค๐ช๐ก๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช?". this type of behaviour is absolutley sickening.
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9. ๐ฉ๐๐๐ฎ ๐ฌ๐๐ก๐ก ๐ฉ๐ง๐ฎ ๐ฉ๐ค ๐ฅ๐ช๐ฃ๐๐จ๐ ๐ฎ๐ค๐ช ๐๐ค๐ง ๐จ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ช๐ฃ๐๐๐ง๐๐๐จ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐ง ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฃ๐ "๐ฃ๐ค". if you are a little and you're reading this, i hope you realise that you should NEVER accept a punishment for +
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(9. cont.) setting boundaries or for saying no to something you aren't comfortable with. if someone ever tries to punish you for saying no and/or for expressing discomfort, take my advice and block them the second it happens.
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10. like i said in #7, they might try to "win you over" by showering you with compliments, or with flirting. please note the difference between calling a little cute because they're cute, and calling a little cute because you're attracted to them.
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please please please be careful if you're a little looking for a caregiver. please look for red flags. please keep yourself safe <3 i love you all and my dm's are always open.
