hi cubs! please don& #39;t open this thread if it might be triggering for you. this thread is about some of the most common red flags of fake caregivers.

tw. grooming, pedophilia
1. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ง๐™š๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃ& #39;๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ฉ๐™ค, or in general.

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2. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™ข๐™–๐™ ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ž๐™ง ๐™ง๐™ช๐™ก๐™š๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™จ๐™๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™จ ๐™จ๐™š๐™š๐™ข ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ ๐™š ๐™จ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ช๐™–๐™ก ๐™–๐™™๐™ซ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™˜๐™š๐™จ, even though you have expressed that you are only interested in platonic and/or sfw relationships. they will obsess +

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over every mistake that you make and constantly look for opportunities to punish you.

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3. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ& #39;๐™ง๐™š ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ค๐™ก๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ. they give you the cold shoulder when you display any kind of interest in anyone else. this is one of the manipulation tactics that i will talk about in this thread. they will obsess over even the smallest things, like what you wear.
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4. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™š๐™ญ๐™ฅ๐™š๐™˜๐™ฉ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™ž๐™ซ๐™ž๐™™๐™š๐™™ ๐™–๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ. they will double-text you like breathing air and get upset with you for not texting back fast enough. they will react when you tell them you aren& #39;t interested in talking to them.

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5. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃ& #39;๐™ฉ ๐™จ๐™š๐™š๐™ข ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™™ ๐™ฌ๐™๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š๐™ฃ& #39;๐™ฉ ๐™ง๐™š๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™™. and if they do happen to be talking to you while you& #39;re big, it& #39;s because they are trying to manipulate you into regressing for them.

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6. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™จ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™ง๐™š๐™˜๐™ž๐™š๐™ซ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™ฅ๐™ž๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ช๐™ง๐™š๐™จ ๐™ค๐™› ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™š๐™ซ๐™š๐™ฃ ๐™–๐™›๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช& #39;๐™ซ๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ข ๐™ฃ๐™ค. most of the littles i& #39;ve ever talked to are really shy and timid, and they have a lot of warming up to do. +

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(6. cont.) one of the most significant things that littles get out of age regression is a chance to heal. forcing or pressuring any little to do anything at all can be extremely detrimental to their healing process. not to mention, wildly disrespectful.

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7. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ค๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ž๐™–๐™ฉ๐™š ๐™ฌ๐™๐™ž๐™ก๐™š ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™–๐™ง๐™š ๐™ง๐™š๐™œ๐™ง๐™š๐™จ๐™จ๐™š๐™™. this can look like many different things: calling themselves & #39;daddy& #39; or & #39;mommy& #39; right away, making sexual innuendos/references, +

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(7. cont.) a lot of swearing, and in some cases, excessive complimenting. this is one of the most common red flags that we see when adults are attempting to groom minors.

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8. they say things similar to: "๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™™๐™ฃ& #39;๐™ฉ ๐™ฌ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™ฉ ๐™ข๐™š ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช, ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ก๐™™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช?". this type of behaviour is absolutley sickening.

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9. ๐™ฉ๐™๐™š๐™ฎ ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ก๐™ก ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ฎ ๐™ฉ๐™ค ๐™ฅ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™จ๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ ๐™—๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™๐™–๐™ง๐™ž๐™š๐™จ ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ ๐™›๐™ค๐™ง ๐™จ๐™–๐™ฎ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œ "๐™ฃ๐™ค". if you are a little and you& #39;re reading this, i hope you realise that you should NEVER accept a punishment for +

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(9. cont.) setting boundaries or for saying no to something you aren& #39;t comfortable with. if someone ever tries to punish you for saying no and/or for expressing discomfort, take my advice and block them the second it happens.

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10. like i said in #7, they might try to "win you over" by showering you with compliments, or with flirting. please note the difference between calling a little cute because they& #39;re cute, and calling a little cute because you& #39;re attracted to them.

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please please please be careful if you& #39;re a little looking for a caregiver. please look for red flags. please keep yourself safe <3 i love you all and my dm& #39;s are always open.
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