honestly for a fandom thats so full of gays (and a cast that seems to be full of them as well) this community is RAMPANT with all kinds of anti-queer bigotry.

sterotyping beau as a predatory lesbian (lesbophobia with a hefty amount of racism mixed in.) calling calebs bisexuality queerbaiting. saying that b/y is just "the only lesbians in the room, not real romance." implying that if jester is bi she isnt allowed to end up w a man.

saying vax and scanlan dont count as "real" mlm rep bc they ended up with women. saying that liam, who has openly spoken about being attracted to and intimate with men, is homophobic bc he calls his best friend his husband sometimes. assuming everyone is straight by default.

honestly this fandom is bursting with lesbians, bi women, and mlm and yet every day i see more shit that tells me that this fandom HATES lesbians, bi women, and mlm. i dont fucking understand it. can yall just behave compassionately? is that too hard?