At this point, I feel like I was created to make people better for someone else. I've always felt a piece of me deteriorate after a person I invested all that time & energy on leaves and shows the better version I helped create to others. However, this article
(A thread) https://twitter.com/_dafnyy/status/1310726694458671104
(A thread) https://twitter.com/_dafnyy/status/1310726694458671104
I recently came across made me realize the life-changing way I’ve imprinted on their future rather than a thing that has become a whole lot of nothing. So here it goes...
The Truth Is, We’ve All Made Someone Better For Somebody Else
-The one who wasn’t ready to commit.
You made them see there’s nothing to be afraid of. And that sharing your life with someone is one of the most exciting and rewarding things you can do. After all, if your
-The one who wasn’t ready to commit.
You made them see there’s nothing to be afraid of. And that sharing your life with someone is one of the most exciting and rewarding things you can do. After all, if your
relationship isn’t growing it’s only dying. Next time, they’ll feel more ready to face their fears and take that leap.
-The one who lied and cheated.
They saw how they broke you into tiny fragments. How you’re now afraid to trust and petrified the same thing is going to
-The one who lied and cheated.
They saw how they broke you into tiny fragments. How you’re now afraid to trust and petrified the same thing is going to
happen again. They know they fucked up. And they never want to be the cause of that pain again. You got your heart broken but in doing so, you spared someone else the very same heartache.
-The one who never gave us the kind of love we deserved.
They’ve learned to give more of
-The one who never gave us the kind of love we deserved.
They’ve learned to give more of
themselves to others. They’ve seen that the more you give, the more you receive back tenfold. They understand that none of us are mind readers. If they don’t say or act on how they’re truly feeling, nobody will ever know.
-The one who said they couldn’t give us what we wanted.
They’ve realized they were simply afraid. Of not being enough. Of getting things wrong. And of you waking up one day, knowing you deserved so much more than they could ever offer. You taught them to be confident in all
They’ve realized they were simply afraid. Of not being enough. Of getting things wrong. And of you waking up one day, knowing you deserved so much more than they could ever offer. You taught them to be confident in all
they have to offer someone else. And to always raise their bar.
-The one who got away.
You made them see what it is they’re truly searching for. You’ve given them clarity and new found meaning. The next time they love will feel right deep down in their heart.
-The one who got away.
You made them see what it is they’re truly searching for. You’ve given them clarity and new found meaning. The next time they love will feel right deep down in their heart.
-The one who took our love for granted.
You taught them to recognize what they had once it was gone. They realized not everyone loves quite as hard and as fully as you do. Because of you, they’re going to grab hold of and treasure the beautiful soul who comes next.
You taught them to recognize what they had once it was gone. They realized not everyone loves quite as hard and as fully as you do. Because of you, they’re going to grab hold of and treasure the beautiful soul who comes next.
So you see, with every relationship we've had, we actually benefitted the community by making the person we just exited a relationship with just a little bit better. Now I'm gonna finish off this thread with a quote.
“If you're not making someone else's life better, then you're wasting your time. Your life will become better by making other lives better.”
-Will Smith
-Will Smith