how am i supposed to feel pretty when this is the beauty standard?
i don’t mean to say that these women are not pretty but this is how you’re supposed to look. you need to be look a certain way and because of these beauty standards that we have today, people get bullied.

i was bullied in school and made fun of for being skinny.“I would love to be skinny but you are so skinny you’re gross. you are so flat chested no boys ever going to fancy you.Oh did I just snap you in half and many more still ring in my ears.

the fact that even boys used to call me things made me uncomfortable. i remember this guy telling me to join gym if i really wanna look attractive to men. i never spoke up because the fact that the people who called me names were my friends, i never felt like calling them out.

these things made me the introvert im today. I lost my confidence and the never ending desire to look and become a certain way started in me. Ppl telling me that men don’t like this. And how these things made me realise that i’m unloveable. So before cracking a joke think twice.

most of us are aware of the bullying overweight women have to go thru but we rlly ignore how skinny ppl are made fun of. What ppl don’t realise is calling someone too skinny is the same as calling someone fat.Ppl don’t realise how much their ‘jokes’ can leave an affect on others.

if u go through sm like this I request u to speak up n tell ppl to stop. It’s the least u can do for ur mental health. Never give fucks to what ppl think. U’re beautiful the way u’re. Never look for ppl’s acceptance. Skinny is beautiful. Curvy is beautiful. Chubby is beautiful.

Every. body. is. Beautiful.

And trust me, the person who loves you will love you no matter what irrespective of your looks and body. Be beautiful from the within. Love xx