cw nsfw mention
6) constantly reading mlm smut
7) calling men gay, twinks, fruity etc when they look feminine
8) sexualizing nonsexual interactions btwn two men
9) "i hate gay people" as a joke when ur ship interacts
10) writing/reclaiming the f slur (in fics, casually etc)
11) if a mlm tells u ur being mlmphobic/homophobic and you say "im not!" instead of listening to us
12) the word fuj0shi is discourse but... hey? if ur a girl/non-mlm and u Only consume mlm content especially nsfw mlm content and call urself fuj0shi or a yaoi fan u are very weird
13) only seeing mlm as soft uwu beans whatever and calling mlm babies all the time and soft boys stop? stop. stop. stop. stop.
14) telling trans mlm they're fetishizing mlm. if you do this you will be dealt with swiftly
15) engaging in mlm discourse as a non-mlm
if you do these things im side-eyeing you. its very often telling of whether or not u fetishize mlm/are mlmphobic.

okay thats all moral of the story: respect mlm im begging
my bestie made a thread on this too explaining things as well as listing them so read h1s as well if u havent https://twitter.com/7killed/status/1308991928235692033?s=21 https://twitter.com/7killed/status/1308991928235692033
forgot to add these
- fruity is aave so only black mlm/nblm should be using it, im sorry for not including this!
- saying "___ fairy" isnt weird, its when you call them fairy because they're being feminine or doing something you could perceive as mlm. it depends on the context
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