Ask yourself if you would date YOU... And don’t just focus on all the things you love about yourself, think about those negative parts of yourself too. Because at the end of the day, it’s all being brought to the table.

Now that you’ve laid out all aspects of yourself on the table, and can see yourself fully, how does it look? Do you like that person? Would you be friends with that person? Would you want to spend the rest of your life with that person?

If yes, then that’s awesome! If not, why not? And whatever the answer to that is, is what you need to self improve on in order to have any sort of successful relationship in life. Whether it be with yourself, romantic, platonic, business, anything!

I doubt anyone will see and/or read this thread in it’s entirety. But if you do....just think about it. This thought process has helped shape me into the woman I am today & will continue to grow into. Hopefully it can help you grow toohttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🌱" title="Setzling" aria-label="Emoji: Setzling">. Blesshttps://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="✨" title="Funken" aria-label="Emoji: Funken">