"this isnt realistic" someone comments, seething in my curiouscat. "stop writing smut you stupid virgin"

i fall to the floor, screaming. i cant believe my omega hybrid tentacle porn hasnt achieved literary realism. i am wounded so deeply i never log onto ao3 again. i am defeated

you cant forget that smut is literally written porn. porn has never been realistic. if youre reading smut looking for realistic sex, you are in for a big surprise

not to mention that virginity is a social construct & dick in vagina sex doesnt mean shit but whatever lol

if we all only wrote about things we'd personally experienced, we'd have nearly nothing to write fics about. writing about sex when you "havent had" sex (talking abt dick in pussy sex, since people consider that "experience" nd "virginity loss" & no other sex qualifies) is really

no different to writing about surgeons when youre not a surgeon, or writing about idols when you arent an idol. there are always going to be inaccuracies, thats part of the power of creativity. enjoy whats there and eat your goddamn food lol