Black Girls clapping back on TikTok in response to mistreatment is great and funny for the meantime but I need you all to not get caught up.

Silence is the best response.

Non-BW don’t give us a heads up about their plans. They just make moves.

Move in stealth and make moves.

I mean it from the bottom of my heart when I say it would be a dream for all toxic BM to pair up with non-BW. We know that if they left us alone collectively, we would be dodging bullets.
But us telling non-BW this, is essentially an own goal that will backfire on us in the end.

We know how racial ideology fuels non-BW to pursue BM because they think it’s an honour to be able to “take” BM from us.
If you dismantle this rhetoric too soon and burst their bubble by showing them we don’t care, BW will not be able to catch up and tip the scales in our favor.

BM moving to WW was never a problem for me. The only problematic thing is the optics.
When it appears that your counterparts are deserting you in droves, it lowers your desirably if you stick around & beg. It makes you look like you have a defect. That has always been the issue.

Telling non-BW that “we don’t care if they take Black Men” is not going to make non-BW want to date Black Men even more.
And something tells me that’s why some black girls are jumping on this bandwagon.
They want to use reverse psychology to ward non-BW away and keep BM around.

If you ladies understand how desirability works by now, you will know that nobody wants a wretched thing.
Even in the animal kingdom, as savage as some animals are, they don’t eat random dead animals lying around. They would rather challenge other animals for their kill.

Here’s a very controversial point (which I’ve discussed in private with some ladies here and I will discuss further on my Patreon):

Black Women muling for Black Men benefits you as a divested BW. The quicker you realize that stratification is inevitable, the better.

If most BW divested simultaneously, the consequences would be dire.
It would affect the intracommunitt dynamics between BM and BW. A lot of violence ensue (and I have credible insights that prove this).

It’s okay to mentally divest and not announce it on TikTok.

Just because you’re a Black Woman doesn’t mean the collective of Black Women should be let in on your strategy/plans to divest. They are just as capable of sabotaging you and owe no allegiance to you just because you’re a BW. They are the people you need to divest from the most.

There will be an elite class in every social group whether you like it or not. I’ve benefited from being the special snowflake Black Woman who is the antithesis of what the world wants Black Women to be.
I didnt get here overnight and it’s not a club for every and any BW to join.

There is no nice way to say this: but it would not be in our interest to have every Tom, Dick, Harry, Stacey, Mirabelle and Alicia flocking where divested BW are heading right now simultaneously.
Claim your individuality quickly because on that deathbed, you will be alone.

We speak often about how non-Black Women stay on code and guard their image.
But we rarely speak about how they also compete with each other for the best resources.
They are able to do this because they see themselves as individuals. It’s time for Black Women to do the same.

Finally, these videos are highly embarrassing.

I understand the urge to clapback at BM who did it first but it's shortsighted.

There are other ways to "clap back", if at all you must.
I think the "sing along if you find them attractive" challenge would was good.

But this? no.

Putting any race of man on a pedestal will always be a suicidal move for Black Women. It's a Red card from me.

We didn't divest from blind-sided loyalty to BM.. just to replace them with WM.

What have WM done for BW's image? Do you not see that they're the CEOs of Misogynoir?

BW's incessant need to make everything besides herself the object of her adoration is what keeps getting us got.

We've barely reached a point where we can keep scrolling when we come across misogynoir. How about we master indifference first before we focus on saving face?

When we make these videos, we're setting ourselves up to be devoured.

Imagine if White Men had seen that video and decided to flood the comments with “we don’t want yall”, those Black Girls would have had egg on their face.

Do not pedestalize other men just to get back at BM.

I've noticed that even if WW step out of line, WM have this blind loyalty to WW, and they will defend them no matter what. We don't have that. In fact, we are the ones who demonstrate blindsided loyalty to BM.

So when we perpetuate these TikTok trends, know that it can get ugly.

No collective group will EVER enjoy have my automatic loyalty.

You only need ONE person to pursue you. You have NO reason to put any collective group on a pedestal.

Expand your options and filter people out based on strategic preferences, as opposed to revenge.

The rhetoric that:

"BM don't want BW so we'll date non-BM" is not only damaging to yourself, it's damaging to other Black Women and their representation.

You're marketting yourself as romantic refugees. It doesn't send the message you think it does when you date out of revenge.

So while Divest Twitter pivots to TikTok in order to implement corrective promotion of BW, please remember that indifference is also adequate revenge.
YOU are the drive of your own life. You are not Moses leading a flock to the promised land. Plan in stealth and make moves.