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i feel the EXACT same thing with people using csa/pedophilia regarding fictional ships when half the time it& #39;s not even pedophilia, just an age gap over what people personally define as "ok" to them. https://twitter.com/oolongteay/status/1310167217200275456?s=19">https://twitter.com/oolongtea...
i feel the EXACT same thing with people using csa/pedophilia regarding fictional ships when half the time it& #39;s not even pedophilia, just an age gap over what people personally define as "ok" to them. https://twitter.com/oolongteay/status/1310167217200275456?s=19">https://twitter.com/oolongtea...
like, you are NOT helping us. you are demeaning our trauma, watering it down and making real victims question if their trauma is legitimate enough. obviously no one experiences trauma the same way, obviously SOME may be triggered by it, but that goes for people being triggered
by a variety of things that others think is completely harmless. you can& #39;t use your particular trauma that matches a relationship/scenario someone likes to them equating they would approve of your suffering.
fiction does affect reality obviously but people take this too often as a means to think that every instance of fiction is meant to affect reality when that& #39;s not the case and has always been a case by case scenario. It& #39;s not something to treat so lightly especially with
victims who have suffered this sort of thing but every damn time we get brushed under the rug and ignored because "well I& #39;m talking about this fictional thing and how it affects reality" like. yea?? what about. what about these real victims telling you to use the things youre
saying more carefully and think about what youre saying? it& #39;s so frustrating. It& #39;s so hurtful to see people take anime characters and what they go through, what we have a CHOICE to walk away from, with real victims when we never got it. like man you need to draw a line in the
sand. you really do because youre stepping anywhere you want all over the beach instead and walking in circles.
"exposing urself to stuff u suffered doesnt help its an excuse" i want you to look me in the eye and tell me that a research study w a select group of mentally ill people who arent me or any of the millions of other people suffering this trauma can possibly be correct for all of
us. you can& #39;t. as someone who has done the same in writing things i suffered to cope w my trauma, it DOES work. you really cannot sit there and decide for someone if it does or doesnt or not. its not your place. if you dont like it you CAN leave. but you need to consider
that maybe pretending this shit doesnt exist in any capacity irl and therefore should in fiction represented as the complicated thing it is is kinda... worse off.
obviously exposure therapy doesnt work for everyone. you need to pay attention to your own mental health if you attempt to do so. but the fact remains no one victim copes and addresses it the same and carelessly calling people serious words associated w their trauma sooner
triggers them than their coping w consuming that content within their own limits.
gonna be honest my guy i have been triggered every time i am called a pedophile for shipping (checks notes) a 5 year age gap between two adults compared to coming across actual pedophilic content that makes me annoyed and disgusted before i block it and move on cuz. hey. thats
the normal thing to do for your own comfort and safety. not harass and threaten people for days and weeks on end.
obviously this content needs to be tagged so it can be avoided. failure to do so IS a part of the poster& #39;s responsibility but beyond that it is ultimately up to you to see it. you dont have to click it. you don& #39;t have to read it. you can block the acc that has the words
(insert bad thing you dont like here) warning when youre scrolling through twit. but man the way people care so much more about ships and characters over real people and their feelings and struggles is so baffling to me, because we& #39;ll be used in the same breath to damn things.
rt this thread if u want bc god if they arent right and god if im not right.
