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dating lily @/ghostdoIIs
the only reason i made this thread is to raise awareness. i do not wish to start drama, i just don’t want anybody else to go through what i went through with her. i’m a minor, she’s 18. she never asked about my age btw
she has made sexual comments to me repeatedly, even after i told her the reason i’m uncomfortable with these comments. she absolutely ignored this in an incredibly tone deaf way and continued to make several similar comments. after this, i was afraid to speak up about it
but the main problem about her was that she’s INCREDIBLY manipulative
she manipulated me into saying that i love her by asking me about it in my weakest moments or when i was intoxicated
she manipulated me into saying that i love her by asking me about it in my weakest moments or when i was intoxicated
when i broke up with her, she tried to make me feel bad about it. she said that i hurt her and she continued to post about it on social media in a way, that was supposed to make me feel guilty. this was extremely manipulative.
she was toxic as fuck while we were dating. she was online all the time and replied to me in under a minute at all times. she made me feel like she’s the only one i could count on.
but she NEVER listened to me. she talked over me, she dismissed my traumas. the only thing we could talk about was what she wanted to talk about. and she made me feel guilty when i wanted to talk about something else
if you think her behavior was problematic on the tl you should have seen what she was like behind “closed doors”
there were days when all she could talk about was murderers and abusers being hot and baby. which made me really uncomfortable but at that point i was afraid to say it
there were days when all she could talk about was murderers and abusers being hot and baby. which made me really uncomfortable but at that point i was afraid to say it
she was obsessed with a married man, more than 20 years her senior, whom she never met. honestly sometimes i felt like he was a third party in our relationship. she would praise him in any given moment which was so bad for my confidence and mental health
i literally don’t know ANYTHING about her bc of this. she used trauma as a way to lure people in, to be her friends. a number of people found her behavior uncomfortable and told her this but she dismissed their opinions
she never listens to anyone, all she cares about is herself
every time somebody told her something they have accomplished, she saw it as a competition and made it seem like she’s better than them, which is really really toxic
every time somebody told her something they have accomplished, she saw it as a competition and made it seem like she’s better than them, which is really really toxic
she just stepped over the line a lot of times, making a lot of people uncomfortable. i just want to raise awareness about this
she seems to be very quick to date new people and i just don’t want anyone else to become a victim of her manipulation
she has very loyal “friends” so speaking out about her is scary as fuck
she has very loyal “friends” so speaking out about her is scary as fuck
she lies a LOT. she falsely apologized a number of times in the past, she lies about her past relationships
and she sees herself as victim in every situation and blames her mistakes on her disability.
you can’t change or fix her, don’t even try it
and she sees herself as victim in every situation and blames her mistakes on her disability.
you can’t change or fix her, don’t even try it
she’s not a good person, a bad friend and an even worse partner. do NOT date her, no matter how hard she tries to charm you. you deserve so much better than her.
if she has traumatized you, don’t be afraid to dm be about it, i’m always here to talk!
and if you want to add something to the thread, you’re free to do that!
and if you want to add something to the thread, you’re free to do that!
thank you for reading this thread. i might add more things to it in the future when i feel more comfortable about sharing them.
