I will never forget this convo between me & my ex:

Me: sex is weird dude, I don& #39;t think I could ever do it myself & it makes ne uncomfy..I might honestly b ace, maybe?

Her: You& #39;re def not ace cus ur like too horny. You& #39;re probs demi tbh

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That was the Moment I was so confused. I was questioning already and for her to tell me that made me question what I knew about myself and being asexual. You don& #39;t get to fucking determine someone sexuality. You& #39;re disgusting if you try to.(+)

Asexuality is a spectrum, I& #39;m not a sex repulsed ace, I don& #39;t care about sex, I could go without it. You don& #39;t get to tell anyone who they are or what they can and cannot identify as. Especially not when you have no idea what the fuck you& #39;re on about.(+)

I& #39;m sorry for this thread all of a sudden but I needed to fucking complain. Aphobes DNI, fuck off. Aces who put down sex positive aces DNI You& #39;re rancid.(+)

Aces and aros who are vibing, ily, remember you& #39;re loved, I know y& #39;all ain& #39;t robots <3(+)

Ppl who are questioning, it& #39;s okay to take your time, it& #39;s okay to be confused. Don& #39;t let anyone try to rush you, you determine your own sexuality(+)

And non aces who just wanna learn; please please please, do ur research, speak with other aro/aces and learn from them