weird to see "don't interact if you like problematic ships"

like, what is the metric here, do betrayals count, do you count age gaps between adults in here, what if they're both cannibals

+ isn't the narrative important as well?

"problematic" is just too vague

obvs language can be clunky and a word like this can be used as a catch-all for the standard Bad Things, but i think many times people would benefit from using words other than "problematic" & using more nuance re: narrative

if the narrative has the potential to be interpreted by some parties as supporting a familial relationship, but that interpretation is only one of many, is that a problematic ship

what if your bf is trying to destroy the material world but he's polite to u

i am begging anyone not to read tone in this or assume anything i have not explicitly said in this thread

the last thing i want is someone starting an argument based on an incorrect interpretation