weird to see "don& #39;t interact if you like problematic ships"

like, what is the metric here, do betrayals count, do you count age gaps between adults in here, what if they& #39;re both cannibals

+ isn& #39;t the narrative important as well?

"problematic" is just too vague

obvs language can be clunky and a word like this can be used as a catch-all for the standard Bad Things, but i think many times people would benefit from using words other than "problematic" & using more nuance re: narrative

if the narrative has the potential to be interpreted by some parties as supporting a familial relationship, but that interpretation is only one of many, is that a problematic ship

what if your bf is trying to destroy the material world but he& #39;s polite to u

i am begging anyone not to read tone in this or assume anything i have not explicitly said in this thread

the last thing i want is someone starting an argument based on an incorrect interpretation