tw dec 18

if you disagree with this and think that it’s ‘turning things into a competition’ then please sb me bc op hit the nail on the head. there is a difference between getting into shinee knowing what happened & loving someone and waking up to them being gone so suddenly. https://twitter.com/3leetaemin/status/1310206517291945984

like you guys don’t understand at all... i got pulled out of school, missed a whole year of my education because my mental health collapsed and i’m now a year behind, i’m still stuck in therapy almost 3 years later... all shawols are valid but there will always be that difference

nobody is gatekeeping grief at all but you MUST understand that there is a divide. we aren’t saying that you can’t be sad or grieve but you have to realise that a lot of pre-dec18 shawols carry trauma with them now.

of course we’re always going to welcome new shawols with open arms because shinee deserve to be loved by as many people as physically possible so don’t try twist things please.

this thread explains everything perfectly so i suggest you read it before jumping to call us bullies https://twitter.com/dujourmeans/status/1310301814907121664