Your worth and your conditions (short thread):

What standards have you set in place for the people that want access to you? You took time to do the inner work and build yourself back up, why worry about just being good enough for someone, shouldn’t you also worry about them being good enough for you?

It took time to get you here. It took time to clean up and finally see yourself as worthy. You should have requirements, conditions, you work a certain way, you prefer certain things, you have a love language, an apology language, your body comes with a manual

We fixate so much on making sure we’re liked by others that we forget our opinion of these people also matter. The love is unconditional but you come with conditions and a fine print. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

It’s only a problem when we refuse to meet others in the middle or compromise. There’s a stark difference between compromise and sacrifice. Sacrifice dismisses your needs and makes a martyr out of you. Compromise looks at the bigger picture and makes a diplomat out of you.

We spent all this time going to war for others that we forgot we too deserve to be fought for.