I want to discuss my mums side of the divorce (specifically her finances) without it being horribly uncomfortable and rude. Anyone who has heard me ranting about the separation knows my mum is a soft idiot and will walk away with whatever is diplomatic/what he gives her. +

I don’t know the details obvs, personal fiancé is personal. But I would assume they’ll split everything 50/50. I don’t know if I like this. 1) it’s his fault they’re divorcing, she still doesn’t want it two years down the line. If he wants to move on, he should pay out.

2) when they got married, mum sold our house and used the money to pay off the mortgage on HIS house which we then all lived in. I can only assume that was probably £150-200k. This is where it gets a bit awkward and selfish bc our house was bought by my dads money when he passed.

I don’t want this arsehole getting more money than he deserves, especially when that money is my dead fathers https://abs.twimg.com/emoji/v2/... draggable="false" alt="🙃" title="Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht" aria-label="Emoji: Auf den Kopf gestelltes Gesicht">