It’s really hard for me to come to terms with the fact that black men also fetishize me. Black men fetishize black women and fat black women within the context of the white sexual gaze. While it may not be race play it’s still based on the ebony porn they watch on porn hub.

Porn isn’t based on desire it’s literally for the white male gaze and categorized for their pleasure. Ebony, BBC, Teen, BBW... etc. This isn’t for us as black folks. BBC isn’t real, ebony porn on pornhub has really shaped how we lust after each other. BBW porn dehumanizes me.

black men who are “interested” in fat black women they try to in act said bbw porn category. They hypersexualize you on the first date. They grab your ass, your tits, your thighs, they are extra bold with their lust. Someone shared a good thread on this form of dehumanization.

They call you a bbw lol, they make comments about why they like fucking bbw’s. The “nice” ones let it slip out later.