I need to tell you what made me sooo happy last night so here we go

I was with my boyfriend and we talked about everything like usual but then he told me « I know that if we wasn’t together you’ll be lesbian »

At first I was like wtf that doesn’t make any sense but then I remember he doesn’t really know much about the lgbtq+ topic so I asked him what he think that. And he said :

« I can’t explain I just know you and know that if we wasn’t together you could be with a girl like it doesn’t matter for you. You don’t mind which gender the person you’re in a relationship is »

FYI I’m pan but only few people know and I was so scared to tell him because of past experiences.

So him telling me that was so surprising especially bc he really don’t comes from a lgbtq+ friendly « community ». He don’t know what pansexuality is. So for him to describing me like that was so pure.

He truly knows me and didn’t feel the need to put me a label. He just wanted to let me know that he knows me and recognize me and my feelings.

After that we change subject but this moment really shows that he just wanted me to know that he knows and that doesn’t change anything.

And yeah this thread is also a way of coming out here too