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𝗔 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗲𝗮𝗱

Most men try to do one of two things on dates

Either they try to convince her that he's worthy of her

Or he's trying every trick in the book to get her to sleep with him

Both are very flawed ways of thinking

Instead, there are 2 things that you should be doing during early dates & those 2 things only

1) See if she is what you are looking for

2) See how interested she is in you

That's it, just those 2

Let me show you why using an example

Let's say you're at a bar

A cute girl walks in. She treats you like you are air. She shows 0 interest

A minute later, an equally cute girl walks in. Your eyes meet. Instant fireworks

If you could go on a date with 1 of them which one would you pick?

Number 2 of course, right?

The first girl has 0 interest in you

Even if you do manage to get her to go on a date with you, it's an uphill battle from the start

It would place you in the position of pursuer. Trying to get her approval

Trying to get her in your bed would lead to a passionless ONS at best

The second girl on the other hand, you would have a great date with

There is mutual interest & passion

So instead of you pursuing her, it becomes a mutual dance

A chance to see if you two fit well together & what future you two could have together

Laid out like this, it's obvious you should ignore girl 1 and go for girl 2

Yet in the real world, most men go after girl 1 just as much as girl 2

They go after girls that show 0 interest in them and pursue them hoping to somehow qualify to her & get her to like him

They sabotage themselves by wasting time on girls that aren't interested in them

Not only does this mean they spend time on bad dates that could have been spent on good dates

It also means tons of bad experiences, making those men bitter & desperate

Now why does girl 1 have 0 interest whilst girl 2 has loads of interest?

Who knows? Could be anything

Maybe 1 is married & 2 is single?
Maybe 1 only likes blonde guys & 2 likes dark hair?
Maybe it's the way you dress?
Maybe it's pheromones?

It could be anything

Most guys only see how cute she is and try to go for it

Smart guys look at how much she is already interested in him

They filter harder

You might get less dates that way, but you'll get better dates

Now a couple of important things here!

First of all, there are ways to get all girls more interested in you

It's the lift, dress well, have passion, be skillfull, know game advice that I don't have to repeat here

But know that no matter how great you become, you will never get every girl to be interested in you

All you can do is improve the odds. Go from 1 in a 100 girls that's very interested in you to 10 in a 100

You'll never get all of them to want you

And don't bother with the giga chad & Brad Pitt examples

Exteme outliers don't mean shit

Reality is that if you get 1 out of 10 cute girls to be interested in you on sight, you're doing really well

And that brings me to another important point

Wanting every girl to like you is an awful mindset to have

You should be ok with hot girls not wanting you

You should be ok with not being her type

There are millions of cute girls in this world

You don't need all of them to like you

Keep your ego in check

Wanting every girl to like you makes you a desperate pursuer for validation

Looking for girls that are naturally interested in you & seeing if you two fit, makes you a successful & happy dater

Huge difference between the two

Don't waste time on girls that don't like you

Now I know it might be difficult for inexperienced guys to tell when a girl has interest in you

So here's a few important pointers that you can use to see if she fancies you or if she doesn't

1) Indicators of interest
2) when in doubt, find out!