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Most men try to do one of two things on dates
Either they try to convince her that he's worthy of her
Or he's trying every trick in the book to get her to sleep with him
Both are very flawed ways of thinking
Either they try to convince her that he's worthy of her
Or he's trying every trick in the book to get her to sleep with him
Both are very flawed ways of thinking
Instead, there are 2 things that you should be doing during early dates & those 2 things only
1) See if she is what you are looking for
2) See how interested she is in you
That's it, just those 2
Let me show you why using an example
1) See if she is what you are looking for
2) See how interested she is in you
That's it, just those 2
Let me show you why using an example
Let's say you're at a bar
A cute girl walks in. She treats you like you are air. She shows 0 interest
A minute later, an equally cute girl walks in. Your eyes meet. Instant fireworks
If you could go on a date with 1 of them which one would you pick?
Number 2 of course, right?
A cute girl walks in. She treats you like you are air. She shows 0 interest
A minute later, an equally cute girl walks in. Your eyes meet. Instant fireworks
If you could go on a date with 1 of them which one would you pick?
Number 2 of course, right?
The first girl has 0 interest in you
Even if you do manage to get her to go on a date with you, it's an uphill battle from the start
It would place you in the position of pursuer. Trying to get her approval
Trying to get her in your bed would lead to a passionless ONS at best
Even if you do manage to get her to go on a date with you, it's an uphill battle from the start
It would place you in the position of pursuer. Trying to get her approval
Trying to get her in your bed would lead to a passionless ONS at best
The second girl on the other hand, you would have a great date with
There is mutual interest & passion
So instead of you pursuing her, it becomes a mutual dance
A chance to see if you two fit well together & what future you two could have together
There is mutual interest & passion
So instead of you pursuing her, it becomes a mutual dance
A chance to see if you two fit well together & what future you two could have together
Laid out like this, it's obvious you should ignore girl 1 and go for girl 2
Yet in the real world, most men go after girl 1 just as much as girl 2
They go after girls that show 0 interest in them and pursue them hoping to somehow qualify to her & get her to like him
Yet in the real world, most men go after girl 1 just as much as girl 2
They go after girls that show 0 interest in them and pursue them hoping to somehow qualify to her & get her to like him
They sabotage themselves by wasting time on girls that aren't interested in them
Not only does this mean they spend time on bad dates that could have been spent on good dates
It also means tons of bad experiences, making those men bitter & desperate
Not only does this mean they spend time on bad dates that could have been spent on good dates
It also means tons of bad experiences, making those men bitter & desperate
Now why does girl 1 have 0 interest whilst girl 2 has loads of interest?
Who knows? Could be anything
Maybe 1 is married & 2 is single?
Maybe 1 only likes blonde guys & 2 likes dark hair?
Maybe it's the way you dress?
Maybe it's pheromones?
It could be anything
Who knows? Could be anything
Maybe 1 is married & 2 is single?
Maybe 1 only likes blonde guys & 2 likes dark hair?
Maybe it's the way you dress?
Maybe it's pheromones?
It could be anything
Most guys only see how cute she is and try to go for it
Smart guys look at how much she is already interested in him
They filter harder
You might get less dates that way, but you'll get better dates
Smart guys look at how much she is already interested in him
They filter harder
You might get less dates that way, but you'll get better dates
Now a couple of important things here!
First of all, there are ways to get all girls more interested in you
It's the lift, dress well, have passion, be skillfull, know game advice that I don't have to repeat here
First of all, there are ways to get all girls more interested in you
It's the lift, dress well, have passion, be skillfull, know game advice that I don't have to repeat here
But know that no matter how great you become, you will never get every girl to be interested in you
All you can do is improve the odds. Go from 1 in a 100 girls that's very interested in you to 10 in a 100
You'll never get all of them to want you
All you can do is improve the odds. Go from 1 in a 100 girls that's very interested in you to 10 in a 100
You'll never get all of them to want you
And don't bother with the giga chad & Brad Pitt examples
Exteme outliers don't mean shit
Reality is that if you get 1 out of 10 cute girls to be interested in you on sight, you're doing really well
And that brings me to another important point
Exteme outliers don't mean shit
Reality is that if you get 1 out of 10 cute girls to be interested in you on sight, you're doing really well
And that brings me to another important point
Wanting every girl to like you is an awful mindset to have
You should be ok with hot girls not wanting you
You should be ok with not being her type
There are millions of cute girls in this world
You don't need all of them to like you
Keep your ego in check
You should be ok with hot girls not wanting you
You should be ok with not being her type
There are millions of cute girls in this world
You don't need all of them to like you
Keep your ego in check
Wanting every girl to like you makes you a desperate pursuer for validation
Looking for girls that are naturally interested in you & seeing if you two fit, makes you a successful & happy dater
Huge difference between the two
Don't waste time on girls that don't like you
Looking for girls that are naturally interested in you & seeing if you two fit, makes you a successful & happy dater
Huge difference between the two
Don't waste time on girls that don't like you
Now I know it might be difficult for inexperienced guys to tell when a girl has interest in you
So here's a few important pointers that you can use to see if she fancies you or if she doesn't
1) Indicators of interest
2) when in doubt, find out!
So here's a few important pointers that you can use to see if she fancies you or if she doesn't
1) Indicators of interest
2) when in doubt, find out!
