people always dm me asking how I’m so confident... “what’s my secret” and all that...

the answer is very simple—

I’ve built myself up like this because I got so fucking tired of tearing myself down.

there are so many factors embedded into society to make us feel like who we are isn’t good enough.

& because of that... I decided I don’t want to add to it. I don’t want to add to “reasons why I should hate myself”.

I’d rather CREATE reasons why I should *love* myself.

I’d rather create reasons why I love who I am at any stage of my existence.

I will find reasons to love myself no matter where or how I am in life.

No matter what—At any weight, with any look, in any situation, during any struggle... I will find reasons to love myself.

At the end of the day, it will never EVER matter what any and everyone thinks of you.

It doesn’t matter if you “fit in” or not.

It doesn’t matter if you’re accepted.

What matters is if YOU accept YOU.

That is a power that cannot be diminished. Never forget that.