just a reminder: when dealing with narcissistic abusers, it’s advised to stay silent because the more you try to fight them the messier it gets, they come up with more lies.
all they want is to get in touch with their victims, they want and need the attention.
all they want is to get in touch with their victims, they want and need the attention.
remember how she dragged her statement for weeks. she tried to force them to give a response, she tried to get their attention by all means, she used every platform to attack them and to push their limits.
feel free to spread those messages.
it’s not only important for this particular AZ situation but it’s also a very complicated and intense side of abuse in general.
it’s not only important for this particular AZ situation but it’s also a very complicated and intense side of abuse in general.
you don’t have to support Bob but you need to acknowledge this possibility, you need to realize AZ checks more boxes as a narcissistic abuser than a victim.
most of the victims keep suffering even after the relationship ends because the abuser makes sure to damage their public persona.
abusers almost always spirals after losing control and they try to keep their power by spreading lies and making themselves look like the victim.
abusers almost always spirals after losing control and they try to keep their power by spreading lies and making themselves look like the victim.
“They will call you the things that they themselves are as...”
remember how she said he is a narcissist and lied about it a few days later.
remember how she called him an ableist while she was publicly using ableist slurs and making fun of people who take pills.
remember how she said he is a narcissist and lied about it a few days later.
remember how she called him an ableist while she was publicly using ableist slurs and making fun of people who take pills.
“...provoking to get a reaction.”
remember how she responded to tweets, kept bringing up her statement and tried to provoke them.”
remember how she responded to tweets, kept bringing up her statement and tried to provoke them.”
“they have no problem dragging others into it... painting you as the perpatrator”
remember how she dragged Eliza and even dragged Bob’s previous ex Jane into it, even though they have nothing to do with her ~abuse~ story.
remember how she dragged Eliza and even dragged Bob’s previous ex Jane into it, even though they have nothing to do with her ~abuse~ story.