water signs need to get better at not using people to fill the voids within themselves. they stay trying to get lost in somebody. whether it’s a temporary one or semi permanent. they’re great at finding distractions from the shit they should be doing.

they also need to stop allowing their emotions to justify their behaviors. at times they get so caught up in “well i’m uncomfortable i’m gone” like ??? that was an opportunity for growth but since it was out of your comfort zone you dipped? they do that a lot.

they also need to not confuse emotional awareness with intelligence. just because you know what emotion you’re feeling and why, does not mean you’re processing or reflecting correctly. especially if during that reflection, you’re biased & leaning solely towards your perspective.

if your tendency is to be swayed entirely by your emotions then you need to learn how to dial that back & intellectualize what you’re feeling. aka make it make sense dude. you cannot be “i’m baby” 24/7. okay you’re hurt & have gone through things SO HAS EVERYONE ELSE.

it’s not you AGAINST EVERYBODY. it’s just easier for you to assume that victim mentality instead of fight for what you want. also stop trying to “heal” people before you’ve even worked on yourself? once again, void filling with others.