Hello to the bh community as a whole
The past weeks have showed us so much toxic situations and how every time each and every one of you starts choosing sides, attacking each other, dismissing others opining/POV and bullying/insulting one another :/

For this week’s situation I have not witnessed it from the beginning but after observing and witnessing the backlash and seeing that everyone had already mentioned their opinion, then I might as well mention mine and what I think of all this chaos

First off let’s start with the sole of the problem. hunter was talking about his cat which it passed away And art pop mentioned that hunters cat had the same name as his mom. so it was viewed as an insensitive comment for others because it wasn’t the time to mention it.

for others it was viewd that his comment shouldn’t have hurt anyone nonetheless because it sounded harmless and that artpop was just relating the fact his mom and the cat had the same name.

Now if that was insensitive to hunter, artpop should have just apologized and that small awkward situation would have passed away and none of the things we all witnessed would have occurred or both of them resorted to DMs and talked it out privately

Now unfortunately everyone who was present at that time didn’t back away but instead were telling artpop to apologize and were very sarcastic with their words. I think that was the turning point that made artpop screenshot the argument and bring it to twt.

When the word was out to bh twt everyone had jumped to conclusions and chosen sides. Who to defend and who to attack and who to cut ties with :/

This is where shi goes to ruins because now we have someone who I belive was destiny that started attacking, insulting, fat shaming and bulling the people who were defending artpop. Destinys word have triggered and hurt others feeling very deeply.

Yeah I get it you were defending your friends too but that does not MEAN to be a bully, make someone feel lesser of themselves and trigger them with your words. You should have watched what you said cause that gave all the reasons for others to dismiss your friends

The group who were there during the argument if you guys stopped destiny from the beginning and tried to at least explain yourselves maybe not with the full story yet but just stopping destiny from hurting others would have been quite enough to stop the fire from becoming greater

Do you guys see it now, THAT EVERYBODY was in the wrong. The actions each and every one of you had made were the cause for this situation to become worse.

It was you all attacking, dismissing, cutting ties with one another, thinking less of each other and CHOOSING sides without waiting for everyone to come out of hiding and explain themselves

This drama yet again has made us aware that everyone would be ready to bash one another as long as their side is not in the wrong, everyone would be ready to back stab each other, everyone will be ready to get rid of the “friendships” you all created in these months.

:/ all I can say now is that I’m so sorry for the people who couldn’t do anything but watch their close friends attack one another and how they are in a tight spot trying to choose and pick who was wrong and who was right

Im sorry for the people who looked at this community as a place for them to feel safe, speak their thoughts get closer to others and feel comfortable because this was the only place they seek positivity from

I’m sorry for you all that now this community would not look the same or feel the same way again, im sorry that you all had to go through all of this overwhelming and stressing Situation :/

This should teach us all that words no matter how they were read or written could hurt people so much that it causes pain to their heart, that words you all choose could seriously hurt more than actions you take and finally that words hurt deeper than fcking knifes :(

PLEASE please think before you type. Please think before you pick sides.
Please think before you speak harsh words trying to justify either yourself or the actions of others. Please just think of putting yourself in others choose before jumping to conclusions

Sadly I won’t be here anymore because I feel like things will not go back to the same way again and interacting with all of you will not be as comforting as it used to be before
and I’m tired of how things are always resorting to us fighting and just back stabbing one another

But I’m so grateful that I met you all and made connections with all or half of you and I’m thankful that my summer and the past months were full of excitement and happiness to show up on here and talk with you guys about my day or how I felt

If some of you still want to interact with me on my other socials then DMs are always open to get either my number or socials And just know that yeah I can’t comfort with touching words or make you feel better but I can be there for you and hear you out anytime of day b/c I care

I might stop by and check up on y’all on the discords that have been there or was made recently

If you have made it this far in this thread, I’m very greatful that you took the time of day to read this with an open mind and not try to dismiss it
And probably it had shed light and made you think again or reflect on what has been happening in this community

hope you all take care of yourselves, stay healthy and please know that you are worth it and is loved by people around you even if they are not the people you want love from,
b/c others are there for you no matter what! Thank you and hope you all have wonderful days ahead